HOW OT REACH YOUR DREAMS
Are you a good dreamer? Do you dream a lot or have lots of desires in life?
We all have dreams and also want to reach them, but why some people get to their dreams and some don’t?
Here are some reasons why some people can’t get to their goals or dreams.
Putting your goals off until "someday."
Since "someday" never appears on the calendar, you'll probably never accomplish your goals if you keep pushing them off. The best of intentions won't do you any good without a clear plan.
Solution: If a goal is important to you, create a timeline. Even if you can't start working on it today, at least tell yourself when you can tackle it. Whether you want to apply for a promotion once your child starts school or you plan to return to college when you turn 40, stop using the word someday.
Waiting to take action until you feel "ready."
If you wait until you feel ready to tackle something tough, you might be waiting a long time. It's unlikely that you're going to gain a sudden burst of inspiration out of the blue.
Solution: Change your behavior first. Sometimes, the emotions change later. Take action and you may gain the ambition you need to keep going.
Not anticipating the tough times.
Whether you want to get out of debt, or you're hoping to lose weight, change isn't easy. You'll encounter some days that are harder than others and it's important to accept that there will be a rough road ahead.
Solution: Think about potential pitfalls that you might face and develop a plan for dealing with those times when you might be tempted to give up. When you have a plan, you'll feel more confident in your ability to keep going.
Viewing mistakes as a failure.
Progress rarely comes in a straight line. But sometimes people think one step back means they've gone all the way back to square one, which causes them to give up.
Solution: Recognize that you're going to mess up sometimes. But rather than declare yourself a failure, use your energy to create a plan to get back on track.
Not making your goal a priority.
It's easy to say you want to make a change but actually doing the work is much different. You have to decide what kind of priority you're going to give your goal. Otherwise, your intention will get lost in all your other daily activities.
Solution: Identify one step you're going to take every day and put it on your calendar. You're more likely to go to the gym, apply for a job, or spend an hour researching a new business idea if you establish a time to do it.
These are just a few reasons why some people cannot reach their dreams or goals. So, next time you have a dream in your mind try to avoid the reasons above.