We all like to be happy and away from stress but some people seem they are always happy and calm. Have you ever thought what they have done or they do to be so calm and peaceful?
Here are the habits happy people don’t do.
They don’t compare themselves with other people
No matter how successful you are, there will always be someone who is more successful. No matter how big your business gets, there will always be a bigger business. Unless you’re Serena Williams or Stephen Hawking or Richard Branson, there will always someone better or smarter or richer.
To be happy, only compare yourself to the person you were yesterday—and to the person you hope someday to become. You may never be the best, but you will gain incredible satisfaction from being the best you that you can possibly be.
That’s all you can control—and all that really matters.
They don’t need to succeed on their own
Solo success is rewarding.
Achieving something with another person or a team is awesome. Not only do you feel good about yourself, you feel great about other people—and you create a connection that can last a lifetime.
And if you do fail, you fail together, which makes that failure a lot easier to take and provides the support to help you try again.
They don’t wish for luck
Why? The things we earn are infinitely more gratifying.
If you saved up to buy your first car, you know exactly what I’m talking about. If you worked and hustled and saved and finally had enough to buy your car, you appreciated it. You took care of it. It was yours, both practically and emotionally.
If you were given a car, that was pretty cool—but you didn’t really feel anything.
If you want to wish for something, wish for the strength and perseverance to earn the things you want. Don’t wait for luck to bring you that enabling client; work your butt off to land that enabled client.
That way, you’ll not only enjoy the destination, you’ll appreciate and be fulfilled by the journey.
Still, there are many other things that happy people don’t do in order to feel happy all the time. So, you’d better follow their steps to feel happy too.