It happens sometimes that some people are not appropriate for our love life and we should forget about them. But it’s not an easy job, therefore, how can we do it?
Here are some ways to consider in order to forget about people we don’t need anymore.
Don’t remind yourself of the person
Your goal is to forget this person so try to escape the places that the person goes to. If you constantly see this one and hear news about him/her how can you forget about him/her?
Don’t go to the places that there is a chance of seeing the person.
Remove him/her from your social network
With the existing social media in our lives, it is possible that the person whom we want to ignore be around us in that way. Therefore, try to block or delete them from your social media.
Ask your mutual friends to stop updating you on this person's doings
Something terribly interesting might have happened, but you do not need to hear about it. If your friend forgets and accidentally mentions this person to you, gently remind him or her of your request, saying something like, "I'm sorry, Jane, but it's too upsetting for me to think about Bill. Maybe we could talk about something else."
However, you may wish to add an addendum to this policy: sometimes learning the right things will help you find closure. Maybe this person has taken up smoking, moved to a different town, or lost their job. Let your friends know that if they think knowing something may help you find closure; they should say something.
Get rid of what reminds you of this person
When you want to forget about someone you should get rid of whatever reminds you of the one. So, throw away whatever makes you annoyed and if you don’t have the strength of doing it get help from your friends.
In general, to forget someone that you loved someday is not easy. So to make it easier just follow the steps mentioned above and try to leave behind the bad memories.